Few days back someone said something very sweet to me…
He said.. “When it’s long that things around are really bad with you…worst than ever... It’s sure that good things are round the corner…"
He said.. “When it’s long that things around are really bad with you…worst than ever... It’s sure that good things are round the corner…"
I didn't check its credibility… I simply liked it…
It makes me realize a lot of things which I have gone through in past 2 years after I have left home... those were the most learning days of my life and I got a lot…Though the learning is still on but that was exponential growth. I use to crib on everything. A lot of things I saw, heard, felt and realize which make me worse but strong and practical person. Who cares about being nice? People don’t come and help nice people in earning their bread…
Anywz…During days of my growing and self analysis I came to know sum of the interesting facts...which I did’t realize back there at home:
1. Its only your parents in this world who stands for you always…there can be thousands of other people and relations which might have their own importance but your parents are the only one who will stay..
2. Plzzzz don’t get emotionally involved... Nothing in this world deserves this.
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3. You should not pray for material things you want...because actually you are never sure what u want…because things you want in life for now may loose there importance with course of time...May b you’ll laugh on later for what u have prayed today.
4. We live in this world where nothing can be perfect. If your office is going fine…your personal life must be in jerks… or other way around…and if everything is looking fine that means something very bad and big is coming up. So cheer up and get use to of sum twitchy-witchy mess everyday. This shows things are normal with u.
5. Life’s unpredictable. No matter how well u plan…you’ll end up doing something unexpected.
6.Speak your mind without worries about the ‘goods’ and the ‘bads’. Those who matters will understand and those who don’t understand does’t matter.
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7. Don’t hold things. Let them go wherever time took them. If something is meant for you it will come back, if not, it was never meant for you.
8. Patience is a very useful tool. Try learning to play with it.
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9. It’s more important to show instead you do. You can take care of your friends and work and family well but it does’t matter…you got to present it well. Be available on cell phone for your friend and always smile no matter you like it or not. Try to act like most biiiuzzzziest person on the earth in spite of the truth that you don’t even have forwarded mails to read…
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10. It’s more important to be with right people at the right time instead of any skills or determination. You should know whom to praise and how much.
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11. People take same sentence differently coming from a “fat, specky, book worm” gal and a “tall, kohl eyed, balanced weight” gal.
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12. Sarcasm is a word. People don’t mean what they say; they don’t say what they mean.
13. “I” is the most important alphabet, thought, thing.
14. Never doubt your instincts and decisions. Stick to what you have decided. Things generally turned out well...may be after long, but they do.
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15. There is something called ‘GOD’ and he really exist with all the positive energy of the world. He takes care of me and this is truer than all the truths.
I can remember only these!!!
But most important life made me calm...at least I look like. Now I know who and what is important to me. I know what I have left behind and what more I’ll leave.
I am still here. Same place where I was before 19 months.
I met people, some taught me telling plain lies (I was good in this but now I have expertise). How to play with words, to say straight no (I am bad in this), how to act smart. How to bluff, to negotiate and to stretch. How to prove things any way by “HOOK OR BY CROOK”. How to act friendly to get out news, How to act innocent and then stab someone. Get out hidden meanings of the words and ulterior motives.
I thank all of you!!! All you people out there. Without you this learning would have not been the same, this place would have not been the same; I would have not been the same.
I learned to live this life and my belief got stronger that everything happens for a reason. I got closer to my family and I got closer to GOD.
It’s may be looking like end of a chapter. You must be getting this in between the lines as I am being conclusive.
No!!! It’s nothing like this. As I have mentioned, I am still here and am not going anywhere. But I am not the same person now, I have changed or better we should say I have evolved.
Hey, Suddenly I realize we have a verse in Hindi with similar thought
Hey, Suddenly I realize we have a verse in Hindi with similar thought
“Jab raat ka andhera ghehra ho jaaye to samjhlo, Savera kareeb hai”
English translation: (When the darkness of night gets deeper, you should understand that morning is close.)
Hummm so the Sweet thing came from here....
Another lesson to learn: Don't get impress with people easily, don't make pre-conceived notions.People are not perfect. All of them have something to teach and some fears and weaknesses.
Learn..and move!!!
