Life and relationship is a complex thing. Sometimes things turned out in a way u never imagined.We come across people who become part of our life and decisions. We trust them and give them a place in our heart.
You met a person as your colleague..and as the time moves you start embracing him as ur brother. You met a person via common friend and then he becomes ur best frnd, U met a person on net.. have telecons and he is now among the ppl you care most and then there is this guy who was ur best frnd, whom u alwz treated like ur dearest cutest buddy is now that sumone special..suddenly u started seeing him in all ur corny and romantic dreams.. :)
By the course of change of all these relationships, life reacted too..
Meanwhile my work still sucks (I don’t have work at all….n m desperately looking for change..plz sumone get me a gud job at a gud place…plzzzzzz) and I have turned down another offer… :(
Priorities change..as life change…Life change as priorities change..
Your brother is married now…he doesn’t have that kinna time for you….you have to accept this fact that he got responsibilities and bigger things to look into. You also want it this way…don’t you???
Your best frnd got new frnds and suddenly he came to know that ur a liar, made stories and keep things from him. You can not blame him..he is busy with his tough job and struggling with life.You want him to take care of his life…don’t you???
Ur frnd is busy with his job and has no longer access to net. You can not discuss world with him and you can’t feel lost in his lectures because he is also busy with his life and girlfriend. You want him to give priority to his job…you want him to make feel his girlfriend the most important person of his life….don’t you???
You want all of them to do this…you want them to take care of their job, wife, girlfriend, other friends and you understand that they are moving in life for gud as you are moving…hard to accept but this is how its meant to be.. Cause now you have changed your priorities too…
It’s the irony of life…..you can not hold best of your things….like your favorite pair of shoes…even if you still want to wear them, u have to let them go for keeping their grace alive, so that you can remember them as a beautiful possession.
We should respect the change and its this change which bring these wonderful ppl in your life..Everything happens for a reason...for gud.
While remembering all what I have gone through..with due respect to each and every happiness I got and as the sun slowly going down..i want to thank god for each and every moment of life, for my wonderful parents, my cute lil sis, my dearest and lovable frnds and for being with me.
I know..ppl will cum n go…they’ll love me n hate me…a lot of things, places and relationships will change but thr is one thing which is thr and will stay with me forever…
My bhagawanji will stay with me!!!
11 comments:
I am surprised i said that to you, about being gods dearest daughter. I feel like Mel Gibson :p
I was telling you about those stupid questions which i and for that matter everyone thinks about, when they lay their head on the pillow after a hard days work. Why do i have to live ? why does life has to be the way it is ? why cant i go to africa and rule a tribal village, offcourse i am smarter than those who use stones to create fire. Okay maybe mine are too stupid for my age but once in a while i think about my past and all the people that i met, my school friends without whom passing even a single day would feel like a punishment in itself, college friends without whom college would have been the most boring place on earth for me and with whom it became the best 4 years of my life. And even though the places where i played in the neighbourhood and the friends who were more than friends are nothing but memories now. I cant really complain about why life changed, becuase it always changed for better. It takes some time for you to realise it but its always for the better :) It had always been better for me and i know it will always be better for you. And yes somethings are not meant to change, they last...they last for lifetime and even beyond that :)
Love,
Monu
Nice post,
As you said priorities change, thats life. Sometimes we are on the recieving and the other times we are having our own priorities. Best thing is to be in touch and let things happen.
true said...
but changes happen just because they gives you new phase of your life....
u meet ppl, you share things with them...then they are somehow lost in crowd to walk with the same speed as the world is walking......
then you meet new ppl...you share things with them... that's part of life, no one can change it....it just give some unforgettable memories that you can keep with you life long....
:)
:P
I agree completely with your post and I also believe that instead of feeling bad, we should be thankful to God for giving us a comfortable life in terms of material needs(which is not always easy), wonderful parents and siblings(we're lucky to have them) and many people who care about you. As for the change, I feel we won't relish the good times if there are no bad experiences. Aur jaise ki good times don't last forever, waise hi bad phases also end. As the song frm "Dor" says.. Raah pe kaante bikhre agar, uspe toh phir bhi chalna hi hai..Shaam chupa le suraj magar, raat ko ek din dhalna hi hai.. rut ye tal jaegi, himmat rang laegi, subah phir aaegi...
@neo
u and ur europian-african dreams..
:)
I'll be thankful to god if there will be things which will nt change....i wish i'll be a princess all my life..
:)
@hitesh
Ab kya bataien dactar baaboo...sab hamse isliye dosti karte hain ke hum unka kachoomar na banayein...
he he he
@chitra
"lost in the crowd"...sweetheart....this is wat making me sappy....there shud be nthing wat we loose...nthing...
@nom de plume
you mean i can expect sumday my frnd will hav excess to net and we'll hav those splendid chats. I shuld wait 4 the time when i can have those wondrerful discussions which i relate completely??
I hope sumday i'll get those kinna days..
:)
"Thoda hai thode ki zaroorat hai....zindagi fir bhi yahan khoobsoorat hai..."
m nt going anywhere... :(
even i wud be staying with ya forever n alwz..
@Richa
Sweetheart...U r a part of my soul.. no one...nthing can seperate me with u...u'll b with me all my life and after that...
:)
I miss u richie...I miss u alot...but the magic is still on...I can still feel u....
Love u sweetie..love u alot!!!
griffendors girls hostel ki warden hai hai !!!
we want a new post !!
:)
nice piece of work!!:)
hey clemie, this post i feel you wrote with my soul n feelings in you....
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