Seems like ppl r sad cause they cant b happy!!!!
:)
We all r moving in the hope of improving our lives..and all the efforts r for finding a perfect living…
Perfect…I m still in dilemma about the use of this word..wat I mean is that..this very word is invented by a very smart human being for smart usage…We either use it with ‘nt’ or ‘im’ as prefix…or we use it to prove that,the vision or dream we had r near to completion…fairytale sorts word..isnt it???
Wat do u mean by perfect???? U ever experienced sumthing,sum situation which is perfect???Any of ur day???any moment?? any person…. it seems but it is nt…I m just too full of it..This kinna thing doesn’t exist in this world..
It’s a very tricky game of our mind…we alwz consider worthy compromises as perfect solutions and others as mare sad compromises…we r the part of this world where nthing is exact..it may b close to or tends to,but nt perfect..
I m loved a lot!! My frnds are fond of me, my colleagues too.. I lived in a well furnished house with all the possible comforts....My rommie is so caring n cool n my ppl..i know they can cross whole world for me..still I would say..my life is nt perfect…I hav my own concerns n my own sorrows..They might nt be worthy considerations but they stress me..They r big 4 me..may b nthing 4 others..
Everybody is full here,one or the other way..every1s sorrows,their problems,their stress is big for them…none has a perfect life..nobody is completely happy!!
They say ..they r perfect 4 each other…wat they meant by this????two ppl,different backgrouds,different upbringing..they cant take similar decision,cant alwz agree on things…they r two different individuals n they compromise 4 each other.. Willingly.. There love 4 each other is also nt selfless…they expect love, companionship, support 4m each other...This is wat they term as perfect??? they fight..hav diffrences..mood swings…
I guess…finally wat matters is love…all wat matters is love…
Its how u take it…its u who made things look prettier, who makes things look bright…seems perfect…And trust me..it’s this “imperfectness” in life, ppl and relationships which made it so beautiful…because then it need efforts..they need attention,care…
I don’t look 4 a perfect life..perfect partner or perfect solutions…There should be sumthing improper in it….which makes it look natural, real n existing…and gives me reason to move forward..reason to live…to improve..
You can call me mad or out of the world person,can disagree,we can hav debates also..because afterall…this is also an “Imperfect” explanation of an “imperfect” thought…..
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There was once a place in my dream
Near the lake, across the mountains
I sat there under a tree
With a glass of wine and a book
I read it, I drinked it
I savored the moments
Until the sun went down, it was all so perfect
But then i realised i was just dreaming
This life - its so imperfect.
All our life we try to chase around things which sometimes we get (but still leaves us discontented) and sometimes ( umm well most of the times) we dont get. If we dont get what we want we say our lives would have been perfect if only we had that special something. I wonder if its this chase to attain perfection in our lives that keeps us moving, nudging us to take that extra step which if you see from an outside perspective would seem nothing but madness. Is perfection a sense of completeness ??? A scientist working on some hypothesis day and night to find that perfect solution which would complete his experiments ..is he being illogical ?? is he mad ??? should we tell him that there is nothing called perfection which exist in this world ??? I think he does things without thinking about the results, its this endeavour to attain perfection which keeps him from giving up. But the truth is there isn't perfection in anything that exists in this universe. Its summer time you want cold. Its winter time you want hot.... you see a beautiful rose but Ahhh !! there are thorns if perfection doesn't exist in the world created by the almighty how can such thing exist in our little worlds.
Its like a web the more you try to free yourself the more you get entangled, the more you try to throw your arms and legs the more it sucks you down - thats the bitter truth of life.
Is there a solution ? Should we stop thinking about perfection in our lives ?? should we stop being passionate in our lives ?? You talk about love ?? what is it ?? if not to complete a picture which is imperfect otherwise ? why do people call there husbands/wives there better half ??? cause half and half make one - perfection ????
But then if half and half made one then why do we have divorces ??? why do we have domestic violence ??? what happened to that perfect picture ????
yes indeed in the end its love that matters ...its only love that matters ....
~avi
Totally and completely agree with Neo here :), just came about your blog as I was reading your comment in his blog. I also do not believe in perfections. Literally speaking perfect is something thats purpose of existance has ben solved which means it does not need to be in the world anymore and if such perfect things started happening just around us, the world would be coming to an end very soon. The thing that matters is how "perfect" our life becomes due to the presence of these tiny imperfections in them. Although if perfection exists in life I would definitely like a taste of it wouldn't you? :)
@astha.
hey!! nice to hav ur comment!!
avi talks about u alot...i m the one who picked ur call once on his cell.remember!we had a talk about going to takeri..
:D..keep commenting n stay in touch!!
@ monu..
both of us r also imperfect..i wish one day u'll list down all the bad things i hav...cause u nvr tell me any...
:)
take care dear!!!
Jai ho Clementine maiyya ki... :) :)
life is really imperfect....
whether on love or what, i think it really depends alot on ur fate and the work you have done....
people can think of better lifes but what they ends up is the thing which is their fate, thats all.... well of course on hard work too....
you can think of a better life from what you are having right now but what you will get is what the allmity has prepared for you
but the most n most important thing is that the word "perfect" or "perfectness" depends on the person's own desires and thinking...
if you ask a simple man working in a small mill or company that is he satisfied with his life??? is his life perfect???
he may say yes....
but right now as many people are here for evidence that most of the people in IT sector are not happy with their imperfect life.....
therefore it completely depends on you wheter you are happy with whatever you have achieved till now....im not saying that moving ahead everystep in your life is bad...but if you fails you should be looking at the bright side...
which im not able to see...:(
@Chitra
You came from nothing and you will go into nothing, so what did you lost - nothing. And everything you gained well thats the bonus. And everyone loves bonus a mill worker and we the imperfect ones in the IT sector. So relax for you have a wonderful mother who makes the bestest cold coffee in the world, coolest dad who cares for you so much and a sweet sister who loves you the most.
I dont know whats keeping you from looking at the brighter side of the life but i am sure it'll pass just like those black roaring clouds which eventually give way to the bright sun of hope, and then once again there is a little bonus to look for - the rainbow.
So Kick back, watch coupla cartoons, go for a pizza in ABH and keep smiling :)
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