Love, friendship and relationships!!!

See It’s a topic recently reviewed by a frnd of mine..picked up the same title 4m there, but I think I can enlighten people with some of my thought!!

Love, indeed a very heavy ‘word’!! Cant use it for every one and I agree that its very confusing. You have different people, different relations but same feeling, u love them. u love ur parents, frnds, family, boyfrnd, husband, children n so many more. it is confusing naa!!
But I think love is a very capable ‘word’. Capable of handling all these relations together…and its nt the confusion with love, its the confusion with our mind, which tries to materialize love.Love don’t have forms, magnitude or types..its just a feeling of heart for a person who is urs. Anyone, irrespective of ur relation with him.love dont have expectations, dont need reasons, any thought or anything. u love people, even if u dont want to, even if u want to stop urself to do so.

Relationships is something which, if not materialize wont stay long. It’s a very practical ‘word’, very responsible ‘word’. We can love anyone anywz but we can’t have similar relationships with everyone. I love my friend, I love my boyfriend, I love both but I have different relationships with them, I have different responsibilities for them n different expectations too. Responsibilities and expectations are obvious with relationships and hence one shouldn’t move into, until he/she is ready 4 handling these ‘words’. Being in a relationship is a mature thing,u have it cause u want to hav..its a decision.But love can be childish, can be unreasonable n stupid.

And for that specific relationship, termed as “love of ur life” things get further complicated. Because I think it’s not just about love, responsibility or expectations, it’s a matter of lifetime. It’s about picking up a guy n putting him on the level of my parents, leaving my sweet home n living with him. Wake up every morning next to him. This need lots of things to take care of. We can’t led a cool life if don’t feel comfortable with each others family and life style. But what if I love a guy who is of opposite pole in every sense, what if he is not responsible and what his life style includes all those things which I hate?????
Love doesn’t see this. Don't care.Love can’t think na!!
I think I’ll go with my mind!!! I can start loving someone but cant wake up next to an irresponsible nt able to hold me kinna nerd, even if I love him alot!! As simple as that!! same goes with me, why one should live his life with me if i am not being able to add something to what he already have.
Love is everything, its pure, satisfying and its the need of every human soul, without love i wont be what i am, u wont be what u are... but,Life is not just about love, its not as simple as shahrukh and kajol love story n “sarson ke khet mein” songs!! Its what our parents do..live together and face things together. Being there 4 each other, trust each other.Bring up there children and love them.. I may be sounding like ammaji… but for me.. practicle world is what matters..rather than fairy tales which honesly i love alot but, i am no cinderella and there is no prince waiting for me, cause life is very diffrent then what it seems....
Sorry kalway..i am nt trying to put u on spot or sumthing...sachchi!!! :)